the deadly theatre

the other day, one of my bestest friends called me up..she told me that she wants to call off her wedding due to some predicaments caused by her husband-to-be which she can’t tolerate anymore..me and the bf always hang out together, and i notice that the bf is the type who loves to take advantage of my friend because she is ‘anak lord’..some more she’s driving a flashy car, a beemer..for soooo many times i tried to tell her what i feel about the bf (he’s slick with words, i loathe these kind of people!)but i cant do it because i do not want any dispute to happen between us..

once the mother asked my friend about her car..she askedmy friend straight to her face and in front of everybody, "tu kereta sapa?"..i was like…hello?????you have no right to ask who’s car is that…apahal lah kan..dahla first time jumpa..bukannya nak tanya pasal minah tuh..sish..

since she is the one who brought up the issue, so i have the guts to come clean about the bf..seriously, i do not understand men nowadays (ehem..jangan marah semua lelaki di luar sana..bukan semua lahhh…),you are the one who should give all those stuff to your wife but not the other way around…apahal lah kan bini kau nak menyara hidup kau…tak tau malu ka??for me, i believe that we should be with our partners through their good and bad times..bukannya dimasa-masa senang sahaja..and we have to work our butt off to get all those things that we have always wanted..bukannya mintak dari mak bapak mahupun meminta loan dari bank ataupun ah long..and plus my friend told me that she wont take anything from her parents after she gets married..i think if they get married, it won’t lasts long because nawaitu nak kahwin tuh pon dah tak betul…

so many things happened between them, but i guesss i do not have to reveal everything here..i told her to end their relationship through the phone since the bf is the type yang akan meraung-raung kalau kawan aku nih nak mintak break..ish..you have no balls, eh?!ayat yang lebih sopan, tak ada telur ke hapa mamat tuh?hahaha..

and aku rasa dengan keadaan mamat itu yang separa senile, tak payahla nak jumpa-jumpa kalau nak break sebab in the end konpem tak akan break..i admit, it is inappropriate untuk membreakkan sesebuah perhubungan melalui telefon, tapi kalau dah bf/gf ko tuh jenis yang bengap, i guess this is the best way..mamposlah orang nak kata apa..masalahnya kita yang menghadap bf/gf yang mental itu..bukannya orang lain..aight??i feel that as a friend i should tell her what i feel about the bf..dah banyak kali aku menyimpan perasaan, walaupun aku nampak bf/gf kawan-kawan menaik (membuat taik)sama ada di belakang mahupun dihapadan kawan-kawan aku, ku diamkan aja..

just because aku taknak bergaduh dengan member-member aku..yelah..orang tengah hangat bercinta..takdenya dia nak pedulik apa kau cakap..bila diorang dah break baru aku cakap.."bf/gf ko kan bla bla bla…"pastuh bila aku dah bagitau,konpem kawan-kawan aku marah..they will say, "babe, asal ko tak cakap awal-awal??????"..pastuh nak merajuk-rajuk dengan aku…omigod!macamana aku nak cakap, kalau apa pun yang aku cakap, korang akan kata, "ala..dia ok…he will change la weyyy…"ok..i admit, people change..tapi bila la woi..kalau umur bf/gf ko tuh 10 tahun, boleh la dmarah ke pukul..tapi nih dah tua bangka la…they will never change..been there, done that!

jadi, moral dari cerita ini…berhati-hatilah ketika mencari pasangan..bukannya semua sincere…its ok kalau korang takda bf/gf daripada ada bf/gf yang boleh buat korang mental…sekian, terima kasih..renung-renungkanlah..selamat beramal..hahaha..sish..serious macam haram tak pun sedikit lanch (ayat chics..haha) ustaz ke doktor yang cakap benda nih…aku dengar kat radio tadi..haha

p/s: marilah kita berdoa kepada tuhan agar tidak didekati dengan lelaki-lelaki ataupun perempuan-perempuan yang tidak berbaloi ini..

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